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Getting Out of Our Comfort Zone Using Experiential Learning

April 7, 2019 by Avi Kantor

The Certior Group recently co-sponsored a skiing/learning event under the auspices of the Jackson Institute – a collaboration with Activ8 and Empowered Wealth.

Much of the event focused on the concept of our “comfort zone” and getting out of that comfort zone into the “learning zone”. The basic idea is that we don’t learn when we “play it safe”. We learn “experientially” when we are uncomfortable; when we must deal with and overcome our fears and anxieties.

Experiential learning was most obvious during the second afternoon of the event when the skiing conditions were the most challenging.

A few of the participants reported moments of effortless skiing; perhaps even a “flow state”. Steven Kotler, author and researcher on flow states, suggests that a 4% differential between a challenge and one’s skill level (i.e., 4% out of one’s comfort zone) is the sweet spot for learning and getting into a flow state. 1    The insight here is that achieving and sustaining “flow states” is the key to high performance in skiing, sports, business, and life.

In the end, all participants regardless of skill level said that they enjoyed the skiing. By supporting others to become the best that they can be, we also created numerous shared experiences. Upon reflection, I suspect that for most of the participants the event wasn’t primarily about the skiing but rather the personal connections made and the many lessons learned.

1) Frequently Asked Questions on Flow, www.stevenkotler.com

Filed Under: Experiential Learning Tagged With: Collaboration, Experiential Learning

Lessons from El Capitan

March 7, 2019 by Avi Kantor

“If you’re free soloing it’s about perfect execution…or certain death” – Jimmy Chin

On Sunday evening, Jackson Hole resident Jimmy Chin, along with his wife filmmaker Chai Vasarhelyi, won an Academy Award for co-directing the film “Free Solo”. The movie features climber Alex Honnold and Honnold’s dramatic, unprecedented free solo climb of El Capitan in Yosemite National Park.

In this interview with Vanity Fair, Chin and Vasarhelyi describe what sets Alex Honnold apart from most people, even if he weren’t a uniquely talented climber.

Here’s an excerpt from the interview:

Chai: Alex lives every day of his life with intention. He’s doing exactly what he wants to do with his life.

Jimmy: But there’s also this misperception…people think “Oh, he’s a free soloist. He has a death wish”…that’s not who he is.

Chai: If he was a daredevil or a maverick, we wouldn’t have been interested in making the film. It was actually his process, his discipline…It was kind of a perfect storm for a documentary film…real existential issues lay in the dangers involved….in his courage he was connecting with people.

Ironically, although the movie focuses on Alex Honnold it also says a great deal about Jimmy, Chai, and their team. What Jimmy and Chai said about Alex Honnold also applies to themselves and their team. It took great discipline and a unique process for everyone involved in the project in order to create the gripping drama that audiences experience. “Free Solo” is more than a film about an extraordinary athlete accomplishing an astonishing fete. In fact, this movie is the story of two extraordinary human feats: Alex Honnold’s free solo of El Capitan and Jimmy Chin’s team filming it. Chin led a highly-skilled crew that filmed the accomplishment, shooting video and photos from positions on El Capitan that few – other than world-class climbers – could even reach, let alone film or photograph from. The experience that he, his wife, and their team produced is a testimonial to what can be achieved with collaboration, a sound process, and great execution.

Most of us can’t aspire to free solo El Capitan or win an Oscar. But we can aspire to live life intentionally, with courage to face obstacles we encounter, and with discipline, collaboration, and a well-conceived, well-executed process.

Filed Under: Collaboration Tagged With: Collaboration, Fulfillment, Process, Structure

A New Model of Leadership

September 1, 2018 by Avi Kantor

Starting in the 1960’s, professional football began to see the rise of the star quarterback as the key to winning championships. Quarterbacks like Bart Starr of the Green Bay Packers, Terry Bradshaw of the Pittsburgh Steelers, Joe Montana of the San Francisco Forty-Niners, and currently Tom Brady of the New England Patriots have become legendary sports figures, largely because of the many championships each has won.

New England Patriots Quarterback Tom Brady

What the era of the quarterback brought to professional football was a highly structured and – most importantly – hierarchical approach to organizing football teams that has subsequently carried forward, metaphorically, in business and culture today. The quarterback of the team calls the plays and leads with authority and control.

The quarterback model has come to represent a common, perhaps prevailing model for the way effective estate planning should be done. Led by a dominant advisor – the one who has the closest relationship with the client – a team of advisors develops and executes a plan focused on tax-minimization, asset protection, and efficient distributions. Respect for this unspoken hierarchy and cooperation among advisors represents best practices in this approach to estate planning.

Miles Davis

In 1958, Miles Davis released an album “Kind of Blue” that revolutionized the way that jazz was played and performed. The music that Miles Davis inspired and modeled is now called “cool jazz”; it was a major departure from the music of the past because it created a new freedom of expression, of human emotion and spirit through music.

Another giant of jazz John Coltrane was a member of the ensemble that recorded that album. American culture has for many years been built upon competition – at times cutthroat competition – for money, power, and recognition. Jazz musicians are part of this culture. Yet, somehow the conditions that were created in the preparation and execution of this album, allowed many talented musicians to perform in collaboration like never before. The result of their efforts is now legendary.

By analogy, multi-generational planning and wealth management could be conducted like a jazz ensemble; that is, with a collaborative team of advisors working to bring out the best in their individual and collective efforts. We suggest that the way to improve our prospective success as a multi-disciplinary profession is to become more like a jazz combo than a football team; that the future of multi-generational planning is not about vying for dominance and control but rather more about collaboration.

Filed Under: Leadership Tagged With: Collaboration, Family Office, Leadership

3 Lessons from Thurman Munson

July 23, 2018 by Avi Kantor

Thurman Munson was an All-Star catcher for the New York Yankees in the 1970’s. He was one of only 4 catchers in Major League Baseball history to win a Rookie of the Year Award, a Most Valuable Player Award, a Golden Glove Award for fielding, and a World Series title during his career. Tragically, in 1979, at the peak of his career, he died when he crashed while piloting his own private jet.

Munson had purchased the jet a year before the crash so that he could fly himself home as frequently as possible from New York to Canton, OH where his family lived. He was still taking flying lessons when the crash occurred.

Thurman Munson

Thurman Munson died from the injuries he suffered during that crash. He was 32 years old. He was survived by his wife and three children. The New York Yankees, the defending World Series Champions from 1978, finished fourth that season. They would not win another championship for 18 years.

There are many lessons to be gleaned from this story. Here are three that come to mind for me:

It’s one thing to buy a jet (actually and metaphorically); it’s another thing to fly it. By analogy, many of our clients “buy” sophisticated financial and legal (trust, estate, tax, and corporate) structures. And by analogy, we’ve made it our focus to facilitate collaboration among other high-level professionals and oversee the operation of these complex financial and legal strategies.

Despite our good intentions, there are unintended consequences to the things we choose to do. We intend to do good things with and for our family, friends, and colleagues. But are we ignoring risks that will permanently impact those around us?

We cannot delegate our presence. There were multi-million-dollar lawsuits and settlements as a result of the Munson crash. But the money could never replace Thurman Munson as the New York Yankee’s catcher, the husband, and the father of three children. Our contributions to others are important and valuable; perhaps more valuable than we fully realize.

Filed Under: Family Office Tagged With: Collaboration, Community, Family, Family Office

It’s About True Wealth, not Just Money…and Why “Collaboration” is More Than a Buzzword

September 1, 2017 by Avi Kantor

I’ve been thinking a lot about how we as professionals can provide more timely and relevant services to more people. Personally, I know that I don’t have all of the answers and solutions to everyone’s problems or opportunities. But I do know that in our area of True Wealth stewardship services and Wyoming’s unique advantages, we have much to offer.

Then I came across the following article from Forbes. The article describes a typical approach that I’ve seen for years: advisors focus on minimizing taxes, maximizing returns, and mitigating risk through legal and insurance strategies. As the article suggests, most advisors believe they should communicate with other advisors. But here’s the challenge that I see: they’re communicating in order to save the maximum amount in taxes, seize investment opportunities, and address financial risks ONLY. To me, this perspective, while common, is short-sighted, self-serving, and misses the mark when it comes to what people really want and need.

Forbes Article “Why Your Financial Planner, Lawyer, and Accountant Should Talk”

I am far from a legal or tax expert. But I can say one thing: advisors would be well-served to ask their clients what they value more than money. In so doing, they may discover that their clients have values, concerns, aspirations, and unfulfilled dreams that saving taxes, maximizing returns, or mitigating financial risks don’t address.

Recently, I attended the The Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners (STEP) Conference here in Jackson. STEP is a large international organization focused on the trust and estate planning issues of families from all over the world who have significant financial wealth. Here again, my sense is that most of the advisors in attendance concentrate on minimizing taxes, maximizing returns, and mitigating risk through legal and insurance strategies. They generally are not thinking about what really matters most to their clients.

I also noticed while attending the STEP conference that collaboration is the new industry buzz word. Just as in the Forbes article above, most advisors seem to view collaboration as talking to each other, cooperating amiably with each other, or being agreeable and tolerant with each other.

I would juxtapose this “business as usual” approach with Avi Kantor’s panel presentation at the recent Empowered Wealth Summit.

Avi knows that if we truly collaborate with our professional colleagues and hold each other accountable for serving our client families well, we can provide more timely and relevant services than what the world has experienced historically.

Filed Under: Leadership Tagged With: Collaboration, Leadership, Stewardship

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